{"id":223,"date":"2018-05-19T22:19:50","date_gmt":"2018-05-19T22:19:50","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2018-05-19T22:19:50","modified_gmt":"2018-05-19T22:19:50","slug":"accepting-today","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mertensmammals.com\/?p=223","title":{"rendered":"Accepting today"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>1\/13\/18<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Luna was a nutcase today.&nbsp; This may not seem particularly newsy, especially if you didn&#8217;t know that she had, in recent weeks, suddenly turned a corner and been acting &#8216;NORMAL&#8221;, to quote my trainer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She had been walking.&nbsp; She had figured out that this was her job&#8211;to walk, to carry a rider like it was no big deal.&nbsp; To relax and think and listen and trust and enjoy staying in tune with the person on her back. To trot in a beautiful, steady rhythm, even over a short line of ground poles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then I went away for 10 days (over Christmas break, a trip to visit my ex so that our son could spend the Holidays with that side of the family.)&nbsp; Luna may only have been ridden a couple of times during that break, but I&#8217;d been back on her at least a few times since then, and so had our trainer, and we both felt that she was being soooo good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So today felt like a little bit of a regression.&nbsp; It&#8217;s possible that I wouldn&#8217;t have labeled it as such, but a friend at the barn watched us careen around and try to settle and commented, &#8220;Oh, and she was just doing so well!&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Indeed she was.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Luna may have been up to her old tricks today, but up my sleeve were a few new ones.&nbsp; First was the trick of &#8220;get off before it gets dangerous&#8211;because you are mounted on a 1200# animal who is engaged in everything but you right now&#8211;and work her around on the ground a little bit.&#8221;&nbsp; This proved to be a useful trick. I used it twice, in fact.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Second was &#8220;Stay really calm and don&#8217;t get emotional about this.&nbsp; Don&#8217;t take it personally.&nbsp; This is not her &#8216;being a jerk.&#8217; &#8221; This kept me more patient.&nbsp; I could hear the words of my farrier and fellow horsemanship enthusiast explaining why the best horsepeople accomplish things which seem literally incredible: &#8220;They have patience.&nbsp; The horses figure that out.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Third was, &#8220;How quiet can you be? Can you ask less? Softer? Release sooner?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I went to a horsemanship clinic several weeks ago (sometime in mid-December) and was blown away by the&#8211;yes, seemingly incredible&#8211;mental change elicited in Luna by a few minutes working in hand with Jim Anderson.&nbsp; He basically just moved her around in a circle around him, changing direction without fanfare anytime she offered more than a walk, and within about 2 minutes she settled from testing to accepting.&nbsp; From trying to find all sorts of answers like run, crowd, leave, rear, snort, until she discovered that the easiest answer (walking) was the right one.&nbsp; And she relaxed.&nbsp; As Jim would say, &#8220;You can&#8217;t make a horse relax, any more than you can make a person relax. 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